Welcome....

I would like to thank you for stopping by this page.  I created this to not only help myself but others as well.  Discrimination is everywhere you look.  It might be in the form of color, sexuality, male/female, weight, etc.  This page is open for you to share your stories and struggles openly with no predjudice.  Now a little about myself, I am a 30 yr old lesbian as some like to say. Personally labels are ridiculous to me.  I was born this way, although so many people say thats impossible.  I can recall doodling a girls name on the chalk board in elementary school praying my mother wouldnt walk in and see it.  Ive not been supported by my family due to my sexuality.  My brother just wants to see me happy, my dad doesnt agree with it but will not turn his back on his only daughter, my mother on the other hand despises me due to this and has disowned me.   Thats what hurts the most.  I was put in counseling at age 19, around the time of my first "lesbian" relationship. Which it did no good.  I was told by the counseler that I was part of 3% that was born "normal".  The first thing asked or suspected when you "come out" is "Were you abused sexually/physically?" I, by the grace of God (yes I believe in God, thats a whole different subject) was NEVER abused it those ways.  Somehow its thought if you were abused that justifiable cause to make someone turn to the same sex.  I have lived a lie my whole life until here recently.  Ive come to terms that God loves me and will see me through all....